💍 Love in Action: How to Show Up for the Brides (and Grooms) in Your Life
RM Home Specialists • May 14, 2025



Love, Like Real Estate, Is in the Details

This summer, we’re honored to be included in four weddings—each one uniquely special, with brides who are dear friends or family. One of them I have the absolute privilege of officiating, and she’s like a sister to me. It’s an incredible honor and a reminder of how personal and powerful this season of life truly is.


As the celebrations unfold—bridal showers, bachelorette weekends, dress fittings, and heartfelt speeches—we’ve been reflecting on what it really means to show up during such an emotional and exciting time.


With wedding season in full swing, we decided to ask these brides: What’s actually been helpful? What’s meant the most?


Inspired by the 5 Love Languages, their answers were honest, moving, and full of ideas for how to support the people we love—during wedding planning and beyond.


1. Quality Time


“When someone offers to sit down and go through my checklist with me—even if it’s just for 30 minutes—it means the world.”
“A friend hosted a no-pressure dinner for us just to unplug. It was exactly what we didn’t know we needed.”
“We started going on a date every month on the day of our future anniversary—just to stay grounded in us.”


Ways to show love:

Host a cozy night in or a spontaneous coffee run.

Carve out time to help plan, not just talk about planning.

Give experiences like a cooking class or a romantic dinner for two.


2. Acts of Service


“It’s not the ‘how’s planning going?’ questions—it’s the ‘what can I take off your plate?’ ones that stick with me.”
“Friends came over for a DIY day and actually helped make stuff. I almost cried.”
“Having someone step in to manage a small task without me asking took so much mental weight off.”


Ways to show love:

Offer a helping hand for DIYs, errands, or organizing.

Take the lead on a brunch, bachelorette, or shower.

Be the calm, competent sidekick every bride deserves.


3. Gifts That Truly Give


“No more candles, please! I'd rather receive something meaningful—something for our home or our honeymoon.”
“A date night kit or luxury bedding feels intentional and useful.”
“The best gifts? Ones that help us stay connected during this busy season.”


Ideas that go far:

A honeymoon fund or couple’s massage

A recipe box from loved ones

A bar cart gift, personalized art, or a weekend Airbnb

Sentimental gifts for the bridal party (because brides give, too!)


4. Words of Affirmation


“A simple ‘You’re doing great’ goes a long way—especially when I’m buried in logistics.”
“My favorite thing has been waking up to sweet texts the week of the wedding.”
“Sometimes you just need someone to say: ‘It’s going to be beautiful.’”


Words that matter:

“I can’t wait to celebrate you.”

“You’re going to be a stunning bride.”

“I’m so proud of how you’ve handled everything.”


Love, Like Real Estate, Is in the Details

At the heart of it, wedding season reminds us how important it is to show up for each other—in big and small ways. Whether you’re planning a wedding, helping a friend through theirs, or simply cheering from the sidelines, let this season be a reminder: presence, thoughtfulness, and connection always win.


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