Be here now: Lessons from a One-year old
RM Home Specialists • June 9, 2025

Lessons from a One-year old.

In the hustle of life and business, we often talk about planning ahead and setting goals. Thinking five, ten, even twenty-five years down the road. And yes—I'm a planner! I love a good vision session, a well-thought-out agenda, and a strong cup of coffee to go with it. But every once in a while, life reminds us to look up - To be fully present. To soak in the beauty of right now. And for me, that reminder has come in the form of a little boy who just turned one.


Dear Macario Jo,


Happy 1st Birthday, sweet boy!


From the moment you arrived in this world, I felt something shift in me. To see my daughter bring you into the world, and to meet your tiny face as one of the very first people to hold you—well, it cracked my heart wide open.


I had heard people talk about the magic of grandparenting, but who could have known? The joy of rocking you, singing to you, watching you grow—it’s a kind of love that fills every corner of my soul. Thank you for that.


What you don’t know, little one, is that you’re teaching me. You are teaching me to be present, to notice the smallest moments, to remember what really matters.


Recently, your mom and I were challenged by our business coach to create a 25-year plan. At first, it rattled me. Planning into my 80s? It felt daunting. But then, it gave me hope. Hope that there’s so much life yet to be lived—if I choose it.


And here’s what I’ve realized: Life is happening right now. When I’m with you, when Grumpa and I are fully present, it feels like time stands still. You make me want to live more intentionally—with my time, my choices, my relationships.


So, thank you to your mom and dad for sharing you with us and giving us the gift of playtime again. You’ve brought silliness, laughter, and joy into our world in ways I never expected. What a beautiful gift to return to play at this stage of life.


-Gammy


Whether you’re holding a baby, launching a business, rebuilding a dream, or simply enjoying a quiet moment—be there for it. Take in the sights, sounds, and softness of now. Make the plans, yes—but don’t miss the present while building your future.


Because sometimes the greatest clarity comes when you see life through someone else’s eyes—especially a curious, joyful one-year-old.


Here’s to being here now—and planning boldly for what’s ahead.


With heart,

Regina


Regina Madiera-Gorden

RM Home Specialists

Licensed Managing Broker | Realtor® 

Windermere West Campus


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